If you see my post on 11:11 I think you will see first hand that YES, the "bogus" situations hurt and hurt in a very big way. BUT, take a look at any typecast... how many Gay people, for example, do you actually know that have the stereotypically lisp, limp wrist, swish when they walk and insist on dressing in drag?
I can tell you for fact that far more straight men cross dress than Gay men and the majority of the gay people in the world AREN'T the "pretty ones" -- the one's dressed in designer everything, with the top model body, hair, etc. No, most of them are invisible to the average person and truth be known, a lot of them aren't very "proud" when it comes to being stigmatized by the FREAKS -- labeled as something they aren't.
This is true with the Psychic world and why so many people (myself included) roll their eyes the minute someone say's they are Psychic and begin rambling about seeing this, hearing that, et al. But then you have the real frauds -- the predators that take on a psychic image for the sole purpose of ripping people off. . . an contrary to the uneducated opinion of most skeptics, such individuals are a minority within the psychic industry and yet, all of us that work that world endure the negative taint (very few having the required teeth for snapping back
)
Whenever a predator type (charlatan) or potentially dangerous Cult-Builder is found, it is typically the other Readers in an area that expose them and run them out of town NOT THE COPS OR MAGICIANS CHASING A HEADLINE. But this is a side to the Psychic world few know about or even think possible.
My point to all of this is how a group of people get judged based on what a minority element does or has been made public in highly dramatic ways (like the press harping on things).
Squeaky Wheels always get the attention -- the one's that are the loudest, most obnoxious and visible. When some screw-ball runs around on YouTube (for example) doing well known magic tricks and CONvicing people that he's a genuine psychic (
not that such videos have ever found their way here
) it isn't just an insult to the more sincere and honest people working in that world, it is a dangerous insult to the general public.
A COUPLE OF CORRECTIONS HOWEVER. . . you are confusing Metaphysical beliefs with the Psychic issue. While they tend to have a connection with one another, one can live a metaphysically oriented life and not buy into all the psychic stuff; you can literally live as a Wiccan and never participate in the working of spells, casting of hexes, etc. In the case at hand you will find many Buddhist teachings that condemn those that "perform" miraculous things such as seeing the future, levitation, and such. As His Holiness would put it, "Who does such great works serve?"
They serve NO ONE other than the person doing them who is compelled to demonstrate such things in order to have followers -- he's weak and desperate without followers and therefore not an enlightened one as claimed. Understand?
When it comes to Reincarnation, while many who call themselves "Psychics" believe in it, not all that believe are psychic... it's not requisite and it may interest you to know that this isn't just one of the oldest known spiritual teachings, it was likewise a primary aspect of early Christianity well into the 6th century (though it was officially condemned and removed from the Orthodox canons in the mid-5th century).
My belief in Reincarnation stems from many experiences but even ignoring that, it's the logic found in the ideology that appeals most to me in that I don't believe in a single almighty deity with a throne, big book of Boo, etc. While the deity might exist, something so omnipotent certainly would have created a system for checks & balances that would aid its creation rather than destroying it, don't you think?
Given the many things you question and how you word those questions, I still believe you would be doing yourself a tremendous amount of good if you simply stopped rambling and meandering long enough to just listen... to pick up a copy of Gibran for an example, and read it out loud so you can HEAR what the words say.
You're starting on a quest but you've yet to accept that it's time for an adventure. Instead, you're sitting there trying to find reason and understanding without introducing yourself to the proverbial bull and grabbing him by the horns... the bull's name is LIFE... try taking a ride on it.