so any pre expectation of a place actually BEING active , are bound to disappoint - but again most people fall into the trap of thinking that because someone has said a place is active - it is and thus MAY well colour their observations
an old adage is worth remembering - "a pessimist is rarely disappointed ,whereas an optimist frequently IS "

so by working to my method -IF one can go in with no preconceptions other than this is probably ANOTHER waste of time , and then CAN be pleasently surprised
well works for me
